* WIP: THIS IS AN UNFINISHED CARRD

DNI IF:
-18 or 30+
proshipper/profic
pedo/r*pist/zoo/necrophiliac or apologist
also if u like/support incest
loli/shotacon
pro-life
generally bigoted [racist, queerphobic, ableist, etc
s-h/suic1de/ED glorifier
if you say slurs you cannot reclaim
or if you think saying slurs is a basic human right and nobody should be offended by them
actively age-regressing [nothing against it, its just my accs r 18+ and i have trauma related to agere]V CW: NSFW/TRIGGERING SUBJECT MATTER Vcnc likers [mainly directed towards rape/SA-fetishizers. this rule explicitly excludes most other fearplay.]necrophilia fetishizers [does not include consenting-monster enjoyers; zombie enjoyers for example]feral porn/feral mlp/pokemon porn consumer, etcself-proclaimed objectum [unless we're already friends - ive only ever met shitty ppl in this community]sexual agere or ageplay [everything against you i hate you]weight fetish/kink [if you actually ARE the weight you're fetishizing, i don't care overall, just don't let me see the fetish content lol - i have issues with how i view my body, so]

BOUNDARIES

If you are hurt by or uncomfortable with something i've said or done, tell me. i have issues recognising when people are upset with me and, by extension, when i've genuinely done something wrong. please be honest with me instead of just cutting me off, casting me out, or insulting me.If you're confused about the intentions or tone behind any of my messages or comments, please ask me! i will be happy to answer. i don't use tone tags much unless someone has said they want me to [despite being autistic myself], so i may forget, but i'm always happy to clarify if asked.if you reclaim any slurs, please do be aware that i MAY become uncomfortable the more you say them, as it can trigger my bpd splitting or OCD in some cases. if you'd like any details on that, i can elaborate in discord dms. this is not a common occurrence anymore, but it's good to be safe!additionally, too much talk of drugs or alcohol can occasionally make me feel a very similar way, so please try to ask me how i'm doing beforehand/during! it would help me a ton with opening up :Dplease do not make any jokes/references that surround incest/pedophilia/beastiality/r*pe around me. these can trigger my ocd, and cause me to have anxiety attacks or get very uncomfortable. not only that, but i may start seeing you in a bad light, as i prefer not to associate with people who joke about subjects like those.if you can reclaim racial slurs, please don't say them around me if possible - i have autism and experience echolalia, meaning i could accidentally repeat something someone else has said. i do not want to repeat something like that.if you want to sexualise me, i'd rather you ask beforehand. if i say it's okay, then take that as a "for the time being" rather than a "forever"
however, do not call me sexy unless it's a joke. idk why i dont like this i just dont lolif i say any joke that seems "queerphobic" to you, rest assured, i am JOKING!!!!! i AM a queer person. any jokes of that nature that i make are actively making fun of queerphobes, not the queer community itself >:[I reserve the right to cut ties if you are deemed unsafe for me to interact with on my private, or my socials generally, but I will do my best to let you know in advance, unless you pose an active threat to me, my friends, or our health.I occasionally have episodes that cause me to run away from people when they make me feel petty, angry or uncomfortable however, so asking me what you did is advised. I might realise I don't actually want to go through with something after using my head, instead of being impulsive.I ask that by adding me on my private, or talking to me on my private, you acknowledge that I am not without my faults, and promise that you will not jump on the opportunity to hurt me for making small mistakes [ie: not realising i've hurt someone, seeming apathetic, accidentally saying things i don't mean, making a joke i don't know/have forgotten that you dislike, etc].I am trying my best to manage my emotions, and my private is where I consider myself to be largely safe from things that trigger me - however, please never feel like you can't speak to me if I've hurt you or if I have done something wrong, or that you dislike. I never mean to, and it's much better to bring up these issues than push them down or keep them unknown.I want to be kind to everyone as much as I can, and I will need help to set boundaries and know limits in order to make sure nobody gets hurt.
Dealing with my episodes really gets in the way of being upfront and genuine about my negative feelings surrounding things people have said or done sometimes, but!! Being helped to trust others really really helps me to feel safer and be honest,, ^^

ART BOUNDARIES

Only ask me to draw something for you if my requests or art trades are open! if you're unsure, ask me about it :]If I draw something as a gift for you, please expect it to be either unfinished or just a sketch, unless I say otherwise. I have a couple chronic illnesses under my belt, and I also just suck ass at staying on-task, so I don't usually get things done.
additionally, if I draw something for you, feel free to use it as a pfp or anything like that with credit unless stated otherwise.I have sososososo many OCs! If you want to learn more about any specific ones, just ask!
If you want to draw them, just ask!!But, please do not draw my characters in any sexual or violent situations unless I approve of it; that is, ask me first.
[Do not even think about drawing this stuff AT ALL if you are underage.]